Are You Ready To Get Married?

Marriage is a big issue for many of us that we cannot resolve. Maybe this is why we are afraid of getting married, and we can never feel ready for marriage. On the other hand, we dream of a beautiful wedding, a white wedding dress. Well, are you ready to live a life alone with your partner after the wedding is over? Here's a little test to answer that.

If You Want Freedom!

Every person sometimes wants to be alone and make their own decisions. But after you get married, you need to strike a balance between making your own decisions and making decisions for your relationship. If this makes you feel trapped and even the idea of a joint decision is unattractive, you are not ready for marriage yet.

If You Don't Talk About Money Matters

Managing finances in marriage is a stressful job, and healthy communication is necessary to manage bank accounts.
If you are not talking about money with your partner, you are not ready to get married. Because money issues are one of the topics that we are open to discussion. What we think about money, how we spend it, reflects our values, and those who don't discuss their values are not yet ready to take a path. You also need to trust your partner with money management. If you lack confidence in financial matters and passwords, it may also be a sign that you are not ready.

If You Have a Secret

No one needs to know everything about you. But keeping yourself secret in marriage is not a good idea. If you are afraid that your partner will judge you and therefore do not reveal your secrets, you are not ready for marriage. Although you always have the right to privacy, staying married without transparency will bring trust issues to the surface.

If You Don't Have Long-Term Plans

Marriage means you are ready to build a future with someone that requires planning, working and putting together. You have to know what you want, stop and decide. If you haven't had a long-term vision discussion with your partner about what your life will be like in 20 years, you probably aren't ready for marriage yet.

 Thinking 'Divorce Doesn't Matter'

Marriage is not just a piece of paper, it is a legal partnership that can have a huge impact on family and financial matters, especially if there are children. So marriage is not a subject to be closed by divorce. If he is considering the possibility of divorce before getting married, you are not ready.

Marry the Right Person for the Right Reasons

If you have any doubts that he is the right person, you will need to reconsider your decision. You should not marry for fear of being alone or to please others. The solution to other problems in your life is not in marriage. Some people want to get married to make things right in their lives. No other person can solve your problems. It's also not a magic solution for other problems in your life. Some people want to get married to fix something wrong in their life or even to fix problems in their relationship.
So make sure you're marrying the right person for the right reasons, if in doubt, it's not the right time to get married yet.

If Your Boundaries Aren't Clear Yet

Every relationship needs boundaries and every relationship's math is different, rules are shaped differently. Therefore, if you have not talked about them and resolved them, the problems will not leave you.
If you have not clarified your boundaries with your partner, it is one of the signs that you are not ready for marriage yet. These limits can cover anything from sharing household chores to your relationships with your social circle.

A relationship without boundaries feels like driving on a bumpy road without a seat belt.

If you don't trust

One of the most basic and important issues for marriage is trust. It means a lot if you know everything about your partner but still don't trust him. You can try to get support from experts in this field.

If You Believe It Will Be Alright When You Get Married

Although getting married is a turning point in your life, it will not transform your partner's underlying character. So take your time, build a space of trust, clarify your boundaries, plan for your future and ask yourself what you expect from a marriage. After the answer to all of these is clear in your mind, you will find the answer to whether you are ready or not.